你了解女孩吗?

其实很多男孩子都不知道，

女孩子在冲他们发火后自己转过身却在不断啜泣。

实很多男孩子都不知道，

女孩子从来不会真正去生他们的气，因为她是真的喜欢他在乎他。

其实很多男孩子都不知道，女孩子只会对自己喜欢的男生唠唠叨叨，

也只会对自己喜欢的人耍性子。

你要知道，假若她不喜欢你，她根本不会来在乎你关心你，怕你做错事情。

你要知道，假若她不喜欢你，她根本不会对你发火不会冲你撒娇让你哄她，

在别人面前她都是淑女。

你要知道，假若她不喜欢你，你根本就没有本事让她哭泣，

让她即使生气也不会超过2天。

而这一切都只是因为她喜欢你，而这一切都因为你还不够在意她不够懂她。
　　
于是，你们时常争吵，你认为她脾气不好，她认为你不够迁就她。

于是，你们总是冷战，你以为她不喜欢你，她以为你不在乎她。

于是，你们总是莫名其妙的彼此错过，也许擦身而过，本身就是一种悲伤着的无奈与幸福。

要知道，凄美依然是美的一种，并且美的绚丽悲凉而沧桑，那是更加的美。

因为她喜欢你，所以她偶尔冲你发火，时常对你撒娇。

因为她喜欢你，所以她才会生你的气；

而又因为喜欢你，她才不会去生气很久。

你可知道，每个女孩子的心都是水晶做的，晶莹剔透，但是很容易就碰伤摔碎。

你可知道，每个女孩子都是不设防的，你那么轻易就闯进她的心，走的时候却只留下伤害。

她从来都不知道，这个世界上根本没有可以让她哭的人，

因为真正值得她哭的那个根本舍不得让她哭。

她会很矜持，

她会很骄傲，

她会很冷淡，

她总是嘴里说着你走开，心里却一直叫你留下。

你了解女孩吗?

请你张开你的耳朵，

也请你打开你的心，

去听她心里真正的呼唤，

而不是她嘴里的口是心非。

她会看着你转身，然后她跟着你转身，当侧身而过的时候，

你看不见她的泪，滂沱在脸上心里。

如果你喜欢她，请你多陪她；

如果你喜欢她，请你多宠她；

如果你喜欢她，请你多让她。

如果你喜欢她，请你去听听她内心的声音，那是呐喊——请拥抱她。

在爱情里，总是彼此伤害，彷佛这样才能证明自己爱得激烈爱到轰轰烈烈。

可是，爱情里没有孰对孰错；

爱情里更加没有你比我多我比你少。

你爱她，她爱你，如此就已经足够。

不要试图让彼此的伤害，让彼此更加脆弱悲伤。

你们彼此相爱，你们需要的是温暖是幸福是甜蜜是快乐，不是伤害。

不要用沉默宣战，不要互不相让，

更不要什么话都不讲就冷漠离去。

要知道，你离去的时候，你的眼睛起了雾，她的眼角泛着泪光。

越是安静战火就越深，这是冷战也是彼此的伤害——

无论是怎么的复合，那些伤口曾经存在，抹不去。

请跟她一个拥抱，用你的拥抱去化解她心里的悲伤与眼角的泪水。

她喜欢你，她绝对不会拒绝你的拥抱，她只会害怕你的冷漠转身无声安静。

请记住，相爱的人不要轻易宣战，因为冷战带来的伤害，超出你的预计。

也请记住，只要你喜欢她，没有什么是你接受不了的，

只要你喜欢她，就喜欢她的一切一切。

那么她所有的小性子所有的坏脾气所有的臭毛病，在你眼里都是撒娇。

也请记住，她喜欢你，她需要的不是你真的转身，她嘴里说着的也不是她的真心话。

她只是想你宠她，想你抱她，哪怕，没有道谦。

两种老公 两种人生‏

A:她：“老公。帮我接杯水呗。”
他：“石头剪子布。谁输了谁去。”
她：“算了。我自己去吧。”

B:他们坐在一起看韩剧。她起身。他问“干吗去？”
她：“去接杯水。”
他：“你坐这看吧。我去给你接。”

女人多可怜。她对男人唯一的要求就是“疼她”。

你可以什么都没有。只要你疼她。她就有足够

的勇气把自己的下半辈子交给你。
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A:他晚上下班。给她打电话“宝贝儿。我晚上和朋友出去吃饭。”
她：“你不是答应我陪我逛街的吗？”
他：“改天吧！”
她默默地流泪。为什么每次都是这样？

B:他下班的时候打电话给她:“亲爱的。

别人给我一张奥运会的票。巴西队啊！一会儿我去看球了啊。”
她：“哦。这样啊。好吧。”
他：“怎么不高兴了？”
她：“你忘了。上周说好今天我朋友和她男朋友请我俩吃饭啊。”
他：“哎呀。对不起亲爱的。我忘记了。那我把票给别人吧。我陪你去吃饭。”
她：“不要了。吃饭可以改天。或者你先去看。我们等你。”
他：“那不行。答应你的事情必须得做到。

再说你自己跟他俩在一起像电灯泡似的。你肯定不舒服啊”
她：“没事……”

没等她说完。他很强势的告诉她“好了。听我的。

你收拾一下。我一会儿去接你。”
其实女人不是不懂事。只是。她需要碰上一个懂事的男人。

其实。情侣之间。是可以互相的。
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A:他：“我晚上出去吃饭了啊。”
她：“几点回家？”
他：“九点之前肯定回家。”
九点半，她：“你怎么还不回来啊？”
他：“十点。肯定回家。”
十一点。十二点。一点。两点……
后来。她不再打电话催他。因为她知道。

对于不守承诺的男人。一切“肯定”都是“未必”。

B:他：“我晚上出去吃饭。九点之前肯定结束。然后我俩去看电影。”
她：“你能那么快就结束吗？”
他：“放心吧。我答应你了就一定能！”
快到九点的时候。他：“收拾一下吧。我马上就到你家了”

信任。是在一件一件小事中建立起来的。
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A:她生理期。身体不舒服。顶着疼痛洗衣服。收拾屋子。
他坐在电脑前面玩网络游戏。
她干完活。躺在床上。长出了一口气。
他看了她一眼：“宝贝儿。辛苦了！”

然后转过头。继续玩他的游戏。

B:她生理期。很难受。起身准备洗衣服。
他拽住她：“你去床上躺着。我来！”
她：“你会做家务吗？你自己洗过衣服吗？”
他：“不会做可以学着做啊。

以后你身体不舒服的时候。我当然得独挡一面！”

女人需要的不只是甜言蜜语。哄她几句。她也许会给你一个微笑。

但是实实在在的呵护。她会对你一辈子的感恩。

并且会回报给你一个温暖的家。
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A:她给他拿了一包榛子。然后她去洗衣服。
回来的时候。榛子已经被他吃得所剩无几。

B:她拿给他一包榛子。然后自己去收拾屋子。
回来的时候。她看见电脑前面放了一堆剥好的榛子仁。

女人很感性。她炫耀你对她的体贴。就好像炫耀克拉钻一样。

这么廉价的买卖。用一点心思就能收获无比的财富。
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A:他说：“你是最好的。”
她问：“我哪好？”
他：“学历高。能力强。长得漂亮。对我又这么好。”
她笑了。

B:他：“你是我所遇到最好的女孩儿。”
她：“我哪好？”
他：“你对身边的每个人都很友善。很无私。对人对生活总是很感恩。

一个人有一颗善良的心。会让周围的人感觉到温暖。

你是我见过最善良的女孩儿。伤害你的人都应该下地 狱！”
她哭了。

一个人。是因为你对他好。所以觉得你好。
一个人。是因为懂得你的好。所以想要对你好。
幸福的恋人。首先应该是一对彼此欣赏的知己。

Who am I?

Your view on yourself:

You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties.

The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:

You are a true romantic. When you are in love, you will do anything and everything to keep your love true.

Your readiness to commit to a relationship:

You are ready to commit as soon as you meet the right person. And you believe you will pretty much know as soon as you might that person.

The seriousness of your love:

You like to flirt and behave seductively. The opposite sex finds this very attractive, and that's why you'll always have admirers hanging off your arms. But how serious are you about choosing someone to be in a relationship with?

Your views on education

You may not like to study but you have many practical ideas. You listen to your own instincts and tend to follow your heart, so you will probably end up with an unusual job.

The right job for you:

You're a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you'll be set for life.

How do you view success:

You are confident that you will be successful in your chosen career and nothing will stop you from trying.

What are you most afraid of:

You are afraid of things that you cannot control. Sometimes you show your anger to cover up how you feel.

Who is your true self:

You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.


get to know urself more thorugh http://www.quizbox.com/personality/test82.aspx ^^

Tagged by Eva

点名规则:

A.

被点到名字的要在自己的博客里写下自己的答案，

然后去掉一个你最不喜欢的问题

再加上一个你的问题， 仍然组成20个问题，
传给其他8个人， 列出其他8个需要回答问题的人的名字，
还要到这8个人的部落格裡留言通知对方—— 你被点名了，
被点名者不得拒绝回答问题，
完成游戏的人将会永远得到大家的祝福。

B.
这８个人要在自己的部落格裡
註明是从哪裡接到的，
并且再传给其他8个人，
让游戏继续下去，不得回传。
被点到名字的人将会得到大家的祝福，
并且所有美好的愿望都会在不久的将来实现。

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1.你最希望从朋友(不包括爱人)那里得到的是什麼？
~时间,信任,安全,热情,关爱...

2.最近最鬱闷的事?
~SPM 的到来,却连一丝的焦虑也没有...

3.最受不了自己的哪个缺点?
~很在意别人的想法,一个人孤独的时候..

4.遇到喜欢的人，你是勇敢表白还是默默关注？
~默默暗恋..

5.说出点你名的人3个优点(不可删除题)
~我的好友~
~非常热爱自己的嗜好
~靓女一个!!

6.以一个形容词形容点名的人的外表
~大大的双眼
7.你现在最想拥有的是什麼?
~学很多,很多^^

8.你的梦想是什麼？
~认识一切

9.恋人／老公／老婆让你最欣赏的优点是什麼？
~不在乎其他人的看法, 只在乎你...

10.这辈子做过最疯狂的事情是什麼?如果没有，最想从事的疯狂行为是什麼?
~曾经和我的傻婆手牵手便看夜空便转圈圈.. 转晕了才肯躺在草丛上享受宁静的那夜^O^
~我想疯狂的购买我所想要的!!!!

11.十年以后，你想过什麼样的生活?你打算如何实现呢?
~以贡献为乐，自己开始

12.接下来最想去旅行的国家或城市? 为什麼?
~想去台湾吃, 想去美国看那挺挺的鼻梁,想去法国看哥哥,想去日本看姐姐, 想去韩国旅行..

13.你为什麼要回答这些问题?
~大家才更了解我^^

14.最开心的时候是几时呢?谁让你开心的笑起来呢?
~当我的收件想响起你的信息时，我能感觉到你那温馨的慰问。

15.什麼时候觉得孤独?
~当世界只剩下我一个人生活...

16.最近一次掉眼泪是?
~几个星期前吧~

17.请列出喜欢的饮料?
~新鲜果汁我的最爱！

18.家人重要还是伴侣重要?
~家人

19.你希望点你名的人成为你的？？
~好朋友^^

20.你觉得自己五官哪一个最好看？？
~都好看，因为是妈妈生我的=P

被我点名的
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1.Wynne (''.)

2.Xuemin (''.)

3.Peishun (''.)

4.chou (''.)

5.YBY (''.)

6.YIngZ (''.)

7.niniGal (''.)

8.yIweI (''.)

白色里我选了红色
吵闹里我选了宁静
你们开心就足够了

a Prayer

Glands through my mail box. lOls.
Over hundred (around 180+) waiting for me read through >.<
hmm, share this to all my beloved Christian friends^^

Saint Theresa's Prayer

May today there be peace within.
May you trust God that you are exactly where you are meant to be.
May you not forget the infinite possibilitie s that are born of faith.
May you use those gifts that you have received, and pass on the love that has been given to you.
May you be content knowing you are a child of God. Let this presence settle into your bones, and allow your soul the freedom to sing, dance, praise and love.
It is there for each and every one of us.


♀【h●n3Y】♂

MY NEW WATER BOTTOL ='D

like it so muchhie @@






Hurray~! *(''.) muack!
Finally, trial exam is over!! Yuppe! =D
What a relief day again. ^^
I am now letting the presure away.



Simply when to Mutiara and then Kepong Jusco to "chui shui"~
Qi shern took us to a new place in Mutiara, well.. maybe I'm not quite updated but i bet lots of u guyz dint went there b4. I dont remember what that shop named (I dint take note of it) =P. Their service was not sucks. Even slower then a turtle could run. ==| But they are polite. This attracted me of course~ Beside the shop is so-called the"small library" where we can connect to the internet ^^. Nice place for meeting o~ I reached home around 9pm. It's really late ><

Somehow, i got my hand cut before the economi exam. It's totally hurts.I dont have any strenght to write with my right hand. My economi esei question was full with my bad writing ='( I dont even know wheather teacher would accept it anot.. bimbangnya~


Shaojia even present me a box of rocky! She knew I love to eat that since last year. M U A C K Z!! thanks sooo much! I stil own u a bday present n it will surprise u geh oo! ^.< haha!

What a boring evening, facing boring books again and agian. turning pages over again and again.. Maggie could be my, should be my, would be my best instant mee! =D


Oh ya, to my recall. Last Saturday is our school's education fair. Me n Kioko walk together and asked most of the booth there. We asked related courses and hobbies =) Such as multimedia, fashion design, make-up, Study in Taiwan, air-stewardess and ect. We had lots of fun that day! haha, we even skip class =P(nothing to be proud of ) Actually, I dint expect myself to involve in multimedia such as broadcasting niether public relationship. But i cant figure out what suits me the most. Well, most of my friends told me I do not like to be an OL ( office lady ) because I dont like a dull life.^O^ what that are adventures and excited alwayz leads me before any other else! Yea, maybe multimedia is the course i probably would take in my future! =D Pray for God's guidence and wisdom in my life ^.^*

Lastly, I will sign up for my driving test as soon as Hari Raya over =)
Gambateh!
I dont wanna fail >.<
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75th Anniversary Celebration

Yeah~ We are passion for U!

Couple look?

Dont touch me ( >_<|)

Have u ever see two ghost appear at the same time?
haha! ;')

It's mine!! wahahaa~

Aiya` so Ramantic =DEveryone is snatching for the mirror =.=
Oh my~ I'm candy woman~ ^.^ hehe!

U can see how happy are we in the hotel together=*)

Ahh!! We got caught!

hehe, Paiseh~ M u a c k!

Make-up on crystal^.<

Merveen [HONEY] =D

Richie and sIs

Me and Wei wei
I'm a lil big taller ^.< Nice hair style~
Kacha~
^O^
Wei wei doing hair .. pro neh
Huiwen + hOney
Nat behind >< me and Crystal~

@.@Daniel and Ahyi!Look of the hall in PGRM that night^^

=P Muackz!

Alwayz Pray ...

*Pauline and hOney*

Hand to hand we serve.

Heart in heart we remember.

Biggest L.V.EThere? where? here? izzit!?

Start=unity=heart=GOD
Sister =D leng lui bo?
3 in 1 milo! wahaha

Weng Kim with his wife and my school teaacher ^O^

Richie alwayz act crazy ><

Dancing? ^^ haha

Lord, U are in my heart.

|Warmth Welcome|

Baby Emily^.^*

Delicious~

We are in LUV with this gigantic vase~ haha!

Ps. Joeann whom is the president of "Star Park"

Gary! haha.I dont know that he's a christian >_^

Recognize him?? =D

╮(╯3╰)╭ Yeah! Daniel*Kelvin*Merveen*

Daddy→Daughter→Mummy
[Luv U all]
Me and my beloved aunty~ ^^ she cares me alot!

Message from the President, Jonathan Chong

☼Man☼

ღ Modelling~ღ mauhaha~ღ

Peace~^^

M u A c K z!!!We would never ever forget those memories forever~

Tada~ c the one behind?? >_<╭☆Cutiie Emily

Hui wen kissing me (^^.)★╯

♬ FAG dancers ♬

Me and dear Yongyi. We hv seen ur sacrificies ^^ TQ

ⓛⓞⓥⓔ for [Dance team]

❤❤❤❤

Star Park is born! for all celebrities whom are Christian^^
STARPARK!

Praying for the rapid and stable growth for [Star Park]
Highly Exalted~

Faithful GOD is him.
Salt Power!!!

Drama : Our journey-"Time tunnel"
This is how our church came into success!!

We bow before Him and declare his name.

"Cover the Earth" Dance Presentation

Praise Him Almighty God.
You are my Lord, God.*The End*

Rev. Jason Ong & Rev. Ong Sek Leang

Yan tIng and Dr. Joanne Yeoh duet

I'm so fortunate to have this pic with her =D

Miss international violinist~ xD

Bless in thy name! oh LORD.

The pain has gone and the JOYOUS part has come!

Yuppiii~ Huuraay!!
It's the day we had our 75th Anniversary Dinner Celebration in PGRM.
God has truly moved throughout the service in the morning and the night.
It's a Fastastic Night to be and u will never regret for being here with US!
Our church has been built since 1934. Without the efforts of the early days missionaries from United States of America, risking their lives and being prepared for the eventuality of dying in a foreign land, we would not have today, celebrating the faithfulness of GOD.

As the pastors and board members are busy prearing for the coming event, I was also busy praticing our dance - the Opening Dance on the day itself. Not many feelings and thoughts came across. It's just like another dance again in church. But days after day, I start to realize that how fortunate am i standing on the stage and to performe the miracle that GOD has prepared for us. It's because of the Lord's abundant grace and strenght, I have served him since young till now and forever!! Hallelujah~[ wink ^.<] Nevertheless, our theme for this anniversary is " OUR JOURNEY " It has a vast define within these word. Our church has grown larger and larger because of everyone's faith unto the LORD. From a merely of 10 into the number of 900 plus plus members. I can say that it's the Lord's blessing. As we all know, it is not easy to pioneer a church. But with God's wisdom, everything is possible. Desite our ignorance, our stubbornness, our faithlessness, our selfishness and foolishness, GOD has never abadon nor forsake us. We may face challenges in our life but we stay together as unity in the house of the LORD.

As I recall the past, I have suffered because it forced me to think what the church has blessed me and it challenge me what I hv done to glorify the church. Once again, I am proud the be a christian. I am proud to be one of First Assembly. I am proud to have HIM in my life and in my heart. Our journey was alwayz surrounded by the never ending love and guidences of GOD. God want us to give glory to HIM by bringing the salt of this earth and light to the world!

" I have no doubt that GOD has greater things in store for you and I to reach a whole new generation with the powerful Gospel o JESUS christ. May you experience grater grace, grater power, grater strength, a new anoiting and profound wisdom as your JOURNEY INTO GOD's DESTINY FOR YOU AS A GREAT CONGREGATION"
by: Rev. Ong Sek Leang

" Everything is possible for HIM who believes." Mark 9:23