11/27/2009

Something to ponder about...................



 
Insight into Decision Making

 
A group of children were playing near two 
railway tracks, one still in use while the other disused.
Only one child played on the disused track, 
the rest on the operational track.

The train is coming, and you are just beside 

the track interchange.
You can make the train change its course to 
the disused track and save most of the kids.
However, that would also mean the lone child 
playing by the disused track would be sacrificed.
Or would you rather let the train go its way?    

Let's take a pause to think what kind of 

decision we could make.......


Most people might choose to divert 

the course of the train, 
and sacrifice only one child.
You might think the same way, I guess.
Exactly, to save most of the children 
at the expense of only one child 
was rational decision
most people would make, 
morally and emotionally.
But, have you ever thought that the 
child choosing to play on the 
disused track had in fact
made the right decision to play 
at a safe place?

Nevertheless, he had to be sacrificed 

because of his ignorant friends who 
chose to play where the danger was.
This kind of dilemma happens around us everyday.
In the office, community, in politics and 
especially in a democratic society,
the minority is often sacrificed for the 
interest of the majority,
no matter how foolish or ignorant the majority are, 
and how farsighted and knowledgeable the minority are.
The child who chose not to play with the rest on 
the operational track was sidelined.
And in the case he was sacrificed, 
no one would shed a tear for him.

The great critic Leo Velski Julian who 

told the story said he would not try to 
change the course of the train
because he believed that the kids playing 
on the operational track should have 
known very well that track was still in use,
 and that they should have run away if 
they heard the train's sirens..
If the train was diverted, that lone child 
would definitely die because he never
thought the train could come over to that track!
Moreover, that track was not in use 
probably because it was not safe.
If the train was diverted to the track, 
we could put the lives of all passengers 
on board at stake!
And in your attempt to save a few kids 
by sacrificing one child, you might 
end up sacrificing hundreds of people 
to save these few kids.

While we are all aware that l

ife is full of tough decisions 
that need to be made,
we may not realize that hasty decisions 
may not always be the right one.

'Remember that what's right isn't always popular... and what's popular isn't always right.'  

Everybody makes mistakes; 
that's why liquid papers and erasers sell well.
 

BOom! the last sentance made me laugh! haha x)



Decisions = FATE


  • Husbands are responsible to maintain proper order and government in the family. (1 Timothy 3:4, 5, 12; Titus 1:6) The husband's primary obligation is to love his wife: "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave himself up for her... So husbands ought also to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself; for no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ also does the church..." (Ephesians 5:28, 29; cp. Colossians 3:19; 1 Peter 3:7)
  • Wives are exhorted to respect and obey their husband: "Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord." (Colossians 3:18; cp. 1 Corinthians 11:3, 8, 9; Ephesians 5:22-24, 33; 1 Timothy 2:11, 12; Titus 2:3-5; 1 Peter 3:1, 2, 5, 6)
A woman who knows her husband loves her - having her best interests in mind - has no problem submitting to him.

11/26/2009

PROM night 09'

A fantastic night with elegance! e
The two M.Ct was great indeed x)
I was amazed by them.
And the night was filled wiath joy and laughter ^^


A night Of Elegance
Mc 1 : FAIZ
 MC 2: Xiang Guo
Best Prom Queens selected
The choosen PROM QUEEN^^

The choosen RPOM KING^^

Sara and Left-Hand~ sweetnya~

Me X)
Sara!! She's so Beautiful that night! =D

I enjoy that Night too=D SMILY ~

TQ so much for the make over^^

WanJing with me ^.<

Muackz~ Love the dress that night^^

He was drunken that night >< opps scary~

SiQing*Me*YiLinG*WenQi
Great is thy Faithfulness~

方大同??similiar..

This is what when MC get bored...

So.... haha xD
Prom Kings that are waiting for their turn to show what they have got ^^
Dancing Queens and Kings [Nobody]
Damn high o!!@.@

Dance section- Latin

Faiz.. sweating =.= too hot?

This is 2009's prom night and
what will we have in 2010?
Yet to come!!


11/10/2009

A spacial Gift

Kindness rewarded

One Sunday, Jessica whom a friend of mine called up and ask me for a favour. I was curious as she never ask me for anything serious. After chatting for about 20 mins I decided to help her for her school's pengawas dinner day at Palm Garden Hotel.

She is the organiser and was told to make a fashion show that night! BOOM* headchenya~
Although SPM is coming but.. no big deal. no worry. People who dont bother to study like me accepted her request. I took LRT to Sri Petaling for two days to teach the unteach models at SMK Seksyen 3 bandar Kinrara. They are all younger but looks older than me ;D Indian, Malay, Chinese [ SATU Malaysia] ^.^

They are friendly but a little bit passive. Eva is suppose to be my assistant that day but she end up put me aeroplane t.t I am alone teaching but thank GOD to hv Jessica around. Some of them bring along their costume for Summer, Autumn, Winter or Spring and [ FOUR SEASON] is their theme for the night! aren't it sounds geogeous?? haha xD adding a projecter behind the runway with hot pop songs.Wow~ AMAzIng!^^

I changed my slippers into high heels and started teaching! =D First.. and then.. bla bla~
I suppose it's hard to have me speaking in English infront of them as I speak Chinese frequently but I end up spoke fluently xD haha~ even the Chinese are speking in english. I was so amaze by that! I hope ChongHwa would follow this system one day because English is really damn important! Well, We reallhy had great conversations ;'] Daphne, a sweet girl that makes me feel her passion in learning modelling. She works hard and willing to try it again and again without any complain. [Admire her]

The second day, I took De Quan along with me so that he could teach the guys. I am absolutely not good in guy's walking. Friendly speaking, the second day was better and we were touched by their obedience and humor. [Spark*!] Thank You so much for that! Sincerely~

I remember the "tall skinny" guy that looks exactly like a stick to me. I called him "木棍啊!" when he walk without that body movement. Just like that little long stick that grows inffront of my apartment. haha XD (so bad) =.= But he improved leaps and bounds. From the beginning till now, he has changed from a head pengawas to a super model! xD

P:s: spacial thanks to Leslie for helping me to cut and make some changes in the song.^^

Paper clipper [ smIly flower] =)

[Unexpected gift] so warmth!!


Got bear bear from their teacher ^^

I received two Thank you cards from them^^

GREAT success to them.
We received presents from their 
guru incharge as a reward xD so happy!

11/08/2009

毕业啦!!

It's time for another memorable day~
Some might cry,
some might shed a tears,
Well, but not all.
Some were stronght enough to look forward.
Huggies here.
Huggies there..
dont cry. We are stil friends forever. Right?
I am happy that U finaly graduated.
Looking for another world.
another job.
another lifestyle.
If U miss ChongHwa.
Might as well, come back and hv a gathering ^^
Isn't cool? Lastly,
I sencerely wish all form6 students and a little number of form5 students
"ALL THE BEST and CHASE YOUR DREAM!!"


Well, I'm not the protagonist for that day.
Actually, I was just helping to take photos.
A Professional photographer??
Well, hoping to~ xD
I MISS all form6 friends whom are close to me.
I hope u guys wont forget me too!
=) Come on, Cheer for urself!!
[I scare I might cry one day] ;'[ sOb.. GLiss*

 little boy ply gun?? haha!


WenQi and Yu HanG <3

 HuggIes* xD friends forever!


Cuteei Sara~ hope u will hv great success!! =']

What are u doing BangxIn? haha xD

Stil got another yr to be with! Treasure!

Happy Graduation !!

11/01/2009

HATE U

SPM coming soon... aikz..
lots more to study,
lots more to memories..
ciao my plying time.. TT
kesian me..

after SPM muz hv FUN till siao! xD

♀【h●n3Y】♂


I wish i could be like him..

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10/15/2009

My latest update




SPM..
who has start preparing?
        I'm dying. lack of persistantcy and the Ohm!
       Yet, nothing could stop me.
    Went out that day..
     had dinner..
     took some picture xD






How do I look with specs?
I just love to hv it.
It fits well.
=D





I lOvE what's called FREEDOM!
 To chase my destiny.
To do what I wish to do.
To have what I long to have.







I am who I am.
hOney.
Honey is a sweet food made by bees
using nectar from flowers.
My life is simple yet spiritual.
with a happy family^^
F.A.M.I.L.Y is important!




Sleeping soundly.
and u can feel what peace is meant to be.
People keep rushing here and thr.
slow down.
look the things beside u.
U will find smtg u neglected long ago.
and that is... CARE








look 2 times ahead.
that's what I learn.
And we will have a happy life.
Be polite.
Be grace.
Be thankful.
Be joyful.
SMILE =)



One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life
and that is.. [LOVE]

Love is the master key
that opens the gates of happiness.
So. it isn't merely love.
But a truely door of endless forgiveness.


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“DO NOT EVER DOUBT IN YOUR BELIEF
DO NOT EVER QUESTION YOUR PURPOSE.
EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON
AND THE BEST WILL COME OF IT ALL.”

10/08/2009

YIppee Ya! Ya!
Everytime after school's exams over, I would be somewhere else with friends just to take a deep breath.. Oh gees* the stress all over me has blown away my mind. U can see me wheather in TS, Mid velly, Sg.Wang, Brem mall, Mutiara or even school during the holidays.. haha! Minggling around for fun is what I urge for.

In the early morning, I catch up with Captain in mutiara again. We then meet up with eva and Kyle to brem mall. First of all, we have the purpose of going there to look up for dresses to where during the prom night in November! xD I wanted a fancy dress yet look adorable on me. So far so good. I fall in love with the black dress with green glittering clothes patch on it and also the white comfortable dress. Somehow, white is the most soothing colour that fit on my body^^. White shoes. white dresses. white bangles, white sparkling earings, white hairband. white everything!

Me and eva were so shy to step into the boutique. Do u know how we manage to try on these dresses after that? Kyle was the one who pushed us into that boutique. lOl. If wasnt him, we would be standing outside until we leave the place.xD We tried several clothes. I love all of them actually. But I wasnt prepared to choose so until NX say yes to me ^^ haha =)