人的一生，像乘坐一台公車。

我們知道它有起點和終點，卻無法預知沿途的經歷。

有的人行程長，有的人行程短。

有的人很從容，可以欣賞窗外的景色。

有的人很窘迫，總處於 推搡和擁擠之中。

然而與懸掛在車門上、隨時可能掉下去的人相比，似乎又感欣慰。

獲得舒適與優雅，座位是必不可少的機會，因此總被人們爭搶。

有的人很幸運，一上車就能落座。

有的人很倒楣，即使全車的人都坐下了，他還站著。

有時別處的座位不斷空出來，唯獨身邊這個毫無動靜。

而當你下定決心走向別處，剛才那個座位的人卻正好離開。

為了坐上或保住座位，有的人漠視良心，甚至傷害他人。

有的人卻因為這樣那樣的原因，不得不將到手的座位讓給他人。

有的人用了種種的方式，曆了長長的等待，終於可以坐下。

但這時他已經到站了。

下車的一刻，他回顧車廂，也許會為區區一個座位而感慨，自以為大徹大悟。

其實即使重新來過，他依然會去爭搶，因為有時如果不坐下，連站的位置都沒有。

除非你永遠不上車，而這並不由自己決定。

到站的人下了，車上的人還在。

依然熙熙攘攘，依然上上下下……

當生活是一種快樂的時候，生命就會充滿喜悅

當生活成了責任，生命就是一種奴隸。

但如果快樂和責任放在一起，快樂就是一種責任了。

活得好，有各種的理由，但社會上給我們的觀念

則是有錢走遍天下，無錢寸步難行。

卻成為我們人生在世的一種迷思了。

猶記新聞報導，有個富翁自覺什麼都擁有了

所以就跳樓自殺，但他似乎是缺少了快樂的動力。

有錢我們更需要快樂，工作是義務，但快樂則是責任了。

快樂要怎麼來呢？

1、喘口氣吧！
人生有太多的行程，甚至很苦，何不讓自已喘一口氣呢
等待並非全無收穫，而是有了滿滿的準備。

2、把握現在：
休息的時候別想工作，運動的時候別想家庭
這一刻做什麼就專心的做，分心會影響生活的樂趣變的不快樂。

3、走出大自然：
面對工作的壓力，是否覺得青山綠水的重要了，
如果快樂是你的責任，請走出大自然醫治你的煩惱吧！

4、每日一笑：
人生不如意十之八九，我們必須相信有希望
雖然有苦有樂，但至少每天給自已一個笑容
看笑話，聽笑話，當笑話，讓自已的笑從今天開始。

5、觀察幽默：
想想你在生活中，覺得哪位朋友，或哪個人你覺得
他很幽默的，請把他記下來，也順便學習
幽默可代替煩惱最好的解藥。

6、尋找興趣：
每天除了工作，看電視，休息，似乎就沒有什麼特別的
活動，不免覺得生活很無聊，不如尋找一個興趣
讓自已學習，例如學樂器，看書，運動等等的活動
就不會覺得生活充斥著無聊了

7、多親近歡樂的人
常常接觸你覺得溫馨、快樂的朋友也沈浸自已在快樂的人生當中。

祝福各位把快樂當做責任，把煩惱當做垃圾。

I find this helps :)

Minimum of 16 hours of driving lessens.

This is where the fun begins.  Hope you like manual Kancils.  It’s not so bad-it teaches humility more than anything else.  Here you not only learn to drive but to park as well.  The instructors tend to be very helpful and will work on any problem areas.  All you need do is ask.

Take the driving tests.  One on the open road, the other in a car park.

Nervous? Don’t be.  It’s simple.  Just do as you did in practice, don’t be in a rush and everything will be fine.  The car park test consists of performing a three point turn, a hill start (which can be a little tricky) and reverse parking.  The open road is much more fun, just go for a drive for about 5 minutes, turn around

Gathering ^^

It's another primary gathering and this time we had FUN in teacher Toh's house^^

Not many people attended yet we have all the fun by ourselves =D We singK in her house and we were asking for more happy hours..

Time's UP and Francis whom was the organizer beg us all to leave.haha xD

Many of my friends espacially Qing Hua had changed alot i think.

He has become "MAN" and also "GENTLEMAN" ^^

I love this word because it sounds comfortable x)

He took 15 subjects in his SPM and what's get me shocked!

Teacher Toh has also changed alot.

Maybe it's has been ages since I last saw her in school. She's currently teacher in other primary school.

I hope she can place herself well there~

2010 is here. I pra that all the blessing and all the confident will be upon everyone I LOVES.

Daddy, Mummy, Brother and Sister.

F.A.M.I.L.Y^^

May GOD bless U all~

Doughtnuts for 20 of us~ haha xD

ZiJun. ZiyIng. QianweN

Me and beloved teacher =D

Eve and HoNey ^^

TangtAng* Qingwah and me!

Some of the boys~

Me and Foo Hong~ a weird guy but a humour one..

[*4 in 1* ]

QingWah and Zi Jun~

They are talking.. since we dint meet so long^^

 Miss the happy hours together!

 

Our "monitar" is pointing at a dog?

 

WenXuan and me^O^

He's a pro singer o!

TA DA!

Welcome 2010!

Wish those who are going to NS:

Bcareful!!!!

Baware!!!!

and

Have fUn ^^

muackz!

MISS U ALL~~~~~~

WOW~
Spm had finish long time ago~
Think back carefully,
I dint take it as an importent test. Oh gosh*
What am I doing?

A girl that wants to hv a happy life.
Yes, indeed.
Nex yr I am in 6aZhong again.
I hate it..
I wish i could be in Xiao for the last yr in CH.
TT.. sObx. crying for useless thing.
2010. I really hope to hv a great experience in this year.
I hope that each of my society will grow better and faster.
Cheer:
U know all of U are a cheerleaders,
Be high every moment so that others will b influenced.
I luv to be with u guyz this yr ^^

Scout:
I know that our members are getting lesser and lesser,
dont worry as long as we are passionate to bring in more new faces
and treat them as a family to all.
One day scout forever scout!
We hv the ability to bring up our society to the highest!
Dont look down on ourself.
the only things is do what U said. and do it well~

Me:
Concentrate on ur studies larh x(
Always make urself bz here and thr.
But i know I love to join and participate camps or events
I love Mass communication.
Bring message to the world.
Where will I be in 2011?
no one knows incliding me ^^

Muackz and bye 2009*!

Wow, one month dint update jor.. haha xD
I miss my old friends~
wish to keep in touch with u guyz~ =) ciao!
I wont be blogging often starting from 2010 onwrds..

Friends whom not studying form6,
gambateh in ur college or uni whatever.
just remember keep in touch ^^
Friend indeed is a friend in need.

Remember

ONE PARAGRAPH THAT EXPLAINS LIFE!

Arthur Ashe, the legendary Wimbledon player was dying of AIDS which he got due to infected blood he received during a heart surgery in 1983. From world over, he received letters from his fans, one of which conveyed: 'Why does GOD have to select you for such a bad disease'?
To this Arthur Ashe replied:
'The world over -- 50 million children start playing tennis, 5 million learn to play tennis, 500,000 learn professional tennis, 50,000 come to the circuit, 5000 reach the grand slam, 50 reach Wimbledon, 4 to semi final, 2 to the finals, when I was holding a cup I never asked GOD 'Why me?'.
And today in pain I should not be asking GOD 'Why me?'

Happiness keeps you Sweet
Trials keep you Strong
Sorrow keeps you Human
Failure keeps you humble

and

Success keeps you glowing, but only Faith & Attitude Keeps you going...  

離婚酒店~感人的帳單

離婚酒店~ 

他和她結婚整整10年了，
夫妻間已經沒有任何衝動與情趣，

他越來越覺得自己對她幾乎就是一種程式與義務，

他開始厭煩起了她，尤其是單位新調進了一個年輕活潑的女孩，

對他發起了瘋狂的進攻，
他突然覺得她是自己的第二春，
經過再三考慮，他決定和她離婚。 

她似乎也麻木了，很平靜地答應了他，

兩個人一起走進了民政部門。 ­
 
手續辦得很順利，出門後，
兩個人已經是各自獨立的自由人了，

不知為什麼，他心裏突然有種空落落的感覺，他看了看她：

“天已經晚了，一起去吃點飯吧。”
   
她看了看他：“好吧，聽說新開了一家‘離婚酒店’，

專門執行離婚夫婦的最後一頓晚餐，要不咱們到那兒去看看。” ­
他點了點頭，兩人一前一後默默地走進了離婚酒店。 ­

“先生女士晚上好。”二人在包廂剛坐下，
服務小姐便走了進來，

“請問兩位想吃點兒什麼？” ­
他看了看她：“你點吧。” ­
她搖了搖頭：“我不常出來，不太清楚這些，還是你點吧。” ­

 “對不起先生女士，我們離婚酒店有個規矩，這頓飯必

須要由 女士點先生平時最愛吃的菜，
由先生點女士平時最愛吃的菜，這叫‘最後的記憶’。” ­

    “那好吧，”她理了理頭髮，“清蒸魚、溜蘑菇、拌木耳，

記住，都不要放蔥薑蒜，我先生……這位先生他不吃這些。” ­
“先生呢？”服務小姐看了看他。 
他愣住了。結婚10年,
他真的不知道老婆喜歡吃什麼。
他張著嘴，尷尬地愣在了那兒。     

“就這些吧，其實這是我們兩個人都愛吃的。”她連忙打起了圓場。 ­

服務小姐笑了笑：“說實話，到我們離婚酒店來吃這最後一頓晚餐，

所有的先生和女士其實都吃不下去什麼，所以這‘最後的記憶’

咱們還是不要吃了吧。就喝我們酒店特意為所有離婚人士準備的

晚餐——冷飲吧，這也是所有來的人都不拒絕的選擇。”

她與她都點了點頭：“那就來冷飲吧。” ­
很快，服務小姐送來了兩份冷飲，兩份飲料中一份淡藍一片，

全是冰渣；一份滿杯紅潤，冒著熱氣。 ­
 “這份晚餐名叫‘一半是火焰，一半是海水’，兩位慢用。”

服務小姐介紹完退了下去。 ­
包房裏靜悄悄的，兩個人相對而坐，一時竟不知道該說什麼好。 ­

 “篤篤篤！”輕輕一陣敲門聲，服務小姐走了近來，托盤裏托著

一枝鮮豔的紅玫瑰：“先生，還記得您第一次給這位女士送花的情景嗎？

現在一切都結束了，夫妻不成就當朋友，朋友要好聚好散，

最後為女士送朵玫瑰吧。” ­
她渾身一抖，眼前又浮現出了10年前他給她送花的情景，那時，

他們剛剛來到這座舉目無親的省城，什麼都沒有，一切從零開始。

白天，他們四處找工作，努力拼搏；
晚上， 為了增加收入，她去晚市出小攤，
他去給人家刷盤子。很晚很晚，

他們才一起回到租住在地下室裏那不足10平米的小屋。
日子很苦，可他們卻很幸福。

到省城的第一個情人節

那天，他為自己買了第一朵紅玫瑰，她幸福得流下了眼淚。

10年了，一切都好起來了，可兩個人卻走向了分離。
她想著想著，淚水盈滿了雙眼，

她擺了擺手說：“不用了。” ­

他也想起了過去的10年，他這才記起，自己已經有五六年沒有給

她買過一枝玫瑰了。他擺了擺手：“不，要買。” ­
服務小姐卻拿起了玫瑰，“刷刷”兩下撕成了兩半，分別扔進了

兩個人的飲料杯裏，玫瑰竟然溶解在了飲料裏。 ­

   “這是我們酒店特意用糯米製成的紅玫瑰，也是送給你們的第三道菜，

名叫‘映景的美麗’。先生女士慢用，有什麼需要直接叫我。”

服務小姐說完，轉身走了出去。 ­ 
“XX，我……”他一把握住她的手，有些說不出話來。 ­
她抽了抽手，沒有抽動，便不再動彈。
兩個人靜靜地對視著，什麼也說不出來。

 “啪！”突然，燈熄了，整個包房裏漆黑一片，外面警鈴大作，

一股煙味兒飄了進來。 ­

 “怎麼了？”兩個人急忙站了起來。 ­

 “店起火了，大家馬上從安全通道走！快！”外面，有人聲嘶力竭地喊了起來。

 “老公！”她一下撲進了他的懷裏，“我怕！” ­

 “別怕！”他緊緊摟住她，“親愛的，有我呢。走，往外衝！” ­

包廂外面燈光通明，秩序井然，什麼都沒有發生。 ­
服務小姐走了過來：“對不起，先生女士，讓兩位受驚了。

酒店並沒有失火，煙味兒也是特意往包房裏放的一點點，

這是我們的第四道菜，名叫‘內心的選擇’。請回包廂。” ­
他和她回到了包廂，燈光依舊。他一把拉她：“親愛的，

服務小姐說得對，剛才那才是你我內心真正的選擇。其實，

我們誰都離不開誰，明天咱們重新結婚吧？” 

她咬了咬嘴唇：“你願意嗎？” ­
“我願意，我現在什麼都明白了，明天一早咱就去辦結婚。

小姐，買單。”他說著喊了起來 。 ­

服務小姐走了近來，遞給兩人一人一張精緻的紅色清單：

“先生女士好，這是兩位的帳單，也是本酒店的最後一道贈品，

名叫‘永遠的帳單’，請兩位永遠保存吧。"
­他看著帳單，眼淚淌了下來。 ­
 “你怎麼了？”她連忙問道。 ­
他把帳單遞給了她：“親愛的，我錯了，我對不起你。” ­

她打開帳單一看，只見上面寫著：

一個溫暖的家；

兩隻操勞的手；

三更不熄等您歸家的燈；

四季注意身體的叮囑；

無微不至的關懷；

六旬婆母的微笑；

起早貪黑對孩子的照顧；

八方維護您的威信；

九下廚房為了您愛吃的一道菜；

十年為您逝去的青春……

這就是您的妻子。 ­

  “老公，您辛苦了，這些年也是我冷漠了你。”

她也把自己的那份帳單遞給了他。他打開帳單，只見上面寫著：

一個男人的責任；

兩肩挑起的重擔；

三更半夜的勞累；

四處奔波的匆忙；

無法傾訴的委屈；

留在臉上的滄桑；

七姑八姨的義務；

八上八下的波折；

九優一疵的凡人；

時時對家對子的真情……

這就是您的丈夫。 ­

兩個人抱在一起，放聲痛哭。 ­
結完帳，他和她對經理千恩萬謝，手牽手走回了家。

看者他們幸福的背影，經理微笑著點了點頭：

“真幸福，我們離婚酒店又挽救了一個家！

♀【h●n3Y】♂

it's so toching~

msg from: Duane Coonrod

 I guess the most exciting thing is I can look back each time and see how GOD has brought something good out of what seemed to be a bad situation. Also knowing that He always wants what is best for me, though it isn't always easy at the time. So Praise Jesus my Lord and Savior for this time of not knowing but only trusting, that it may Glorify our Father in Heaven.

 I do have a Prayer request for one of my students Lili Wei. The program she was working with at the college has decided to take a different direction and she was told last Friday that her services are no longer needed. Which means she will be sent back to China earlier than her contract had originally stated. Part of my prayer is that GOD will somehow turn this around or bring good out of what seems to be a bad situation for her. But the main part of my prayer is for her Salvation as she has not excepted Jesus as her Lord and Savior yet.

 You know for all of you that are my brothers and sisters in Christ we all know that even if we never see each other here again on earth. We will see each other in Heaven one day and in that we can have peace in being apart. But she has be come a good friend as many of you have and I just want to know that I will see her again one day as well. For any of you that haven't excepted Jesus I asked that you think about this as well. Do you have the assurance of knowing where you are going to spend eternity and will we celebrate there as well?

In His love

Duane

A Slow pace

SLow Dance 

This is a poem 
written by a teenager with cancer.



She wants to see how many 
people get her poem.



It is quite the poem. Please pass it on.



This 
poem was written by a terminally ill young girl in a 
New York 
Hospital



It was sent 
by

a medical doctor - Make sure to read what is in the closing statement 
AFTER THE POEM.




SLOW DANCE

Have you ever 
watched kids

On a merry-go-round?

Or listened to 
the rain

Slapping on the ground?

Ever followed a 
butterfly's erratic flight?

Or gazed at the sun into the fading 
night?

You better slow down.

Don't dance so 
fast

Time is short.

The music won't 
last



Do you run through each day

On the 
fly?

When you ask How are you?

Do you hear the 
reply?

When the day is done

Do you lie in your 
bed

With the next hundred chores

Running through 
your head?

You'd better slow down

Don't dance so 
fast

Time is short.

The music won't 
last



Ever told your child, 

We'll do it 
tomorrow?

And in your haste,

Not see his sorrow?

Ever lost touch,

Let a good 
friendship die

Cause you never had time 

To call and say,'Hi'

You'd better slow down.

Don't dance 
so fast.

Time is short.

The music won't 
last



When you run so fast to get somewhere

You 
miss half the fun of getting there.

When you worry and hurry 
through your day,

It is like an unopened gift...

Thrown away.

Life is not a 
race

Do take it slower

Hear the 
music

Before the song is over.

Something to ponder about...................

Insight into Decision Making   A group of children were playing near two  railway tracks, one still in use while the other disused. Only one child played on the disused track,  the rest on the operational track. The train is coming, and you are just beside  the track interchange. You can make the train change its course to  the disused track and save most of the kids. However, that would also mean the lone child  playing by the disused track would be sacrificed. Or would you rather let the train go its way?     Let's take a pause to think what kind of  decision we could make....... Most people might choose to divert  the course of the train,  and sacrifice only one child. You might think the same way, I guess. Exactly, to save most of the children  at the expense of only one child  was rational decision most people would make,  morally and emotionally. But, have you ever thought that the  child choosing to play on the  disused track had in fact made the right decision to play  at a safe place? Nevertheless, he had to be sacrificed  because of his ignorant friends who  chose to play where the danger was. This kind of dilemma happens around us everyday. In the office, community, in politics and  especially in a democratic society, the minority is often sacrificed for the  interest of the majority, no matter how foolish or ignorant the majority are,  and how farsighted and knowledgeable the minority are. The child who chose not to play with the rest on  the operational track was sidelined. And in the case he was sacrificed,  no one would shed a tear for him. The great critic Leo Velski Julian who  told the story said he would not try to  change the course of the train because he believed that the kids playing  on the operational track should have  known very well that track was still in use,  and that they should have run away if  they heard the train's sirens.. If the train was diverted, that lone child  would definitely die because he never thought the train could come over to that track! Moreover, that track was not in use  probably because it was not safe. If the train was diverted to the track,  we could put the lives of all passengers  on board at stake! And in your attempt to save a few kids  by sacrificing one child, you might  end up sacrificing hundreds of people  to save these few kids. While we are all aware that l ife is full of tough decisions  that need to be made, we may not realize that hasty decisions  may not always be the right one. 'Remember that what's right isn't always popular... and what's popular isn't always right.'   Everybody makes mistakes;  that's why liquid papers and erasers sell well.

BOom! the last sentance made me laugh! haha x)

Decisions = FATE